Secret Signs of Attraction

How To Spot The Signals That Your Date Is Attracted To You

You've turned up to a first date to find that you're very attracted to the person you're meeting. But how do you know if he/she feels the same way? What if they are not so keen on you - you don't want to risk being embarrassed! Luckily for you, it's easy to tell if your date is enamoured with you. You can tell if he/she is attracted to you even before you begin to chat. The secret is in the body language signals that your date is giving off. Learn to read these signals and you'll already know what your date is thinking.

Dilated Pupils

A prime sign of attraction - enlarged pupils occur when you are feeling happy and like the person you're with. So if his/her pupils are large, you know you're on to a winner.

Eye Smile

It's easy to fake a smile. You just move you mouth! What's not so easy to fake is a genuine smile that stretches up from your mouth to your eyes. So if your date has a sparkly smile in his/her eyes, you can bet they are enjoying your company.

Eyebrow Lift

If his/her eyebrows are raised while you're talking, this indicates interest in you. Raised eyebrows are a subconscious expression of opening the eyes wider when a person is engaged with what's happening in front of them. So raised eyebrows is a sign that your date likes what s/he sees and hears.

Leaning Forward

If your date leans in close, transferring his/her weight forwards towards you - this is a great sign, especially if you can hear each other just fine! Leaning in close is a signal that your date is interested in you and wants to get physically closer. It's a subconscious indicator of attraction.

Toes Pointed at you

You might be surprised to learn that if your date's toes are pointed towards you, it's a sign of attraction! This is not as random as it sounds because feet are used in the fight-or-flight response which means if you’re thinking about fleeing from your date, your feet would be pointed away. If toes are pointed towards you, your date is happy and content chatting to you and is not having any thoughts of making a quick escape. arm, and then see his feet angle away from you, the context says he's no longer interested.

Body Tilted towards you

If your date is not looking at you when you are talking - for instance if you are sat on a bench beside each other - this is not a good sign. Your date should, ideally, be looking at you and have his/her whole body slightly angled towards you as he/she speaks. He talks to you without facing you. However, you should probably not rush to judge as he/she might just be a bit shy. If you are standing and your date slightly tilts his/her pelvis towards you, it might be time for a cold shower because this is a sign of strong sexual attraction.

Palm Pressing

You probably won't be holding hands on the first date, but as things progress, if he/she presses his/her palm into yours, this indicates a desire to connect with you. Ditto for interlocking fingers. A lose hold on your hand suggests that your date is not totally sure they are falling for you, yet.