Soul Mates

14 Signs You've Found Your Soulmate

1) Soulmate Spark

Soulmates have a sizzling spark between them - a deep connection, powerful attraction and good chemistry. But a soulmate spark isn't about looks or appearance because soulmates connect at a soul level, rather than just a physical one. When beauty fades and lust wilts a soulmate spark will keep burning brightly because your connection is more than skin deep.

2) Dream Team

You work together like a dream, to make your lives run smoothly. Each person instinctively knows what needs to be done, whether that's housework, entertaining friends, caring for the children, looking after each other - or in the bedroom. You are equally active partners.

3) Lots of Laughs

Laughter is the best medicine for nurturing a long-term relationship. If you can see the funny side of situations together - you'll be more likely to stay together. Laughter has a beneficial effect on your body so a partner who makes you chuckle is literally having a positive effect on you.

4) Number One Fan

Your soulmate is your biggest cheerleader, encouraging you to follow your dreams. Willing you to succeed, your partner always wants the best for you because they feel joy when you achieve. Jealousy has no place within a soulmate relationship.

5) Red Hot Romance

It's never just sex with a soulmate. When you make love you are connecting on a deep level that transcends a physical quick thrill. Sex with a soulmate re-connects two beings into one, which is deep, meaningful - and always red hot.

6) Sound of Silence

A soulmate is easy, comfortable company. You can sit in silence together and not feel awkward. You should feel a sense of peace when you are together. Constant rows and rollercoaster highs and lows of emotion are not part of a soulmate relationship.

7) Respect Always

Never using unkind words or treating their partner badly, a soulmate is always respectful towards their partner. Listening is part of being respectful - a soulmate listens and responds to their partner. Respect should be easy and natural - a person who is rude or hurtful is not ready for a relationship.

8) Keep it Real

Nobody is perfect. You will have annoying habits as will your soulmate - you are both human. A soulmate relationship is not about pretending the other person is fairytale ideal lover. But your soulmate will recognise your faults and foibles and love you anyway.

9) Perfect Balance

A soulmate will never try to change you. But you may find your personality and views shift slightly over the years spent together. Negative parts of your personality are smoothed out by being around your soulmate. This is because a true soulmates balance each other out. They have good qualities you lack, while you have qualities they lack, making a harmonious match.

10) Fun Times

Couples who play together stay together. With a soulmate you'll find you naturally share similar interests and hobbies. You soulmate will be willing to try something you like and you will do the same for them.

11) Shared values

Your goals, values and life ambitions will align with your soulmate. You will be similar from the start of your relationship but as the years pass your dreams will become even more in tune.

12) Honest & Open

The great thing about a soulmate is you don't have to pretend with them. You can be yourself. You feel free to share your fears, hopes, shame and desires to a person who will empathise.

13) Look of Love

You don't need to say a word to communicate with a soulmate. A glance or smile can convey exactly what you're feeling to the person who loves you most. This is because a soulmate is in tune with your feelings so non-verbal communication is possible.

14) Best friends

You are lovers and you are friends. Your soulmate is the person you want to be around all the time. You make each other feel good.